Peace : Search Within

Yesterday, after a conversation with my friend, I was thinking about how people made a perception about their way of comforts to their own way of living which sometimes arise a question "How we can think like this?” Why am I discussing all this as I got to learn a new thing which is all about Peace.

My friend is living in Dwarka, Delhi which is one of the developing and biggest sub cities like Noida/NCR.He is staying there from last more than a year I think so. Small families and singles, who are working in gurgaon are staying over here.

Now, whenever he used to talk to me about Dwarka, he always says "yaahn ka paani salty hai...hair is greying like anything". I always said him that why not you change the location of house as health is more important than staying in posh colony. He always replied "Here is peace". I replied to him "Staying in posh colony , where after 8:00 pm you can’t see people on road, is it peaceful place for you?" He said “no sound/voice is only PEACE for me.”




After this conversation, I thought that is it important to get peace we need to stay away from people or place? Or we need to go to Himalayas to get that peace either. I shifted my thoughts and I got a new thought that Peace never comes unless and until our inner soul is not at peace. Changing places and non-interaction with people never give peace to us. Why not a person workout on changing Inner peace? Lots of ways to do that but we are not ready to spend our time and energy to do that.

COMFORT is the only culprit of our life which never want us to experience something new, unusual, incomparable and unimaginary EXPERIENCE which is always helpful to us in smaller way but a new way which may be you ask yourself doing this "What will I get to do that?" SMALL experiences are much better than BIGGER One. Do it, you wont get any harm, Only Experience, which would always be long-lasting possession.

Where ever you stay, keep your soul at peace.

Experience the Experiences to get the Experience.

Hi folks,I m writing this blog after a long time.I havent touch this vitrtual thing from the last 3 mnths. Can you imagine that I even forget whats going on in virtual world?what are my friends doing these days?who is writing abt what?Now when I checked updates on my account I felt that nthing is changed . Everything is as usual. I remember those days when every day I used to come and chat with my friends and sleep hahahaha.I saw lots of changes in myself since last 5 mnths. Everything get changed.Just due to change in myself I m feeling that everything is perfectly fine and perfectly placed accuratly. Amazingggggg.I actually enjoyed with myself.

Last mnth I was nt well,but, still I enjoyed that phase also.why?How can a person enjoyed to be ill or sick?yes everybody can.I relaxed.I talked to myself.I get to know how people think about u or any other thing differntly everyday . they have different perceiption abt same thing every day. Means to say everyday they change their mind and thoughts.sometimes it is gud to be like this bczo u are refreshing urself and if it becomes possesive then u need to think abt this obsessions.

Last mnth , I realised that may be u dont like to be ill or "feeling nt gud" factor but somewhere it is gud to be ill coz atleast you are getting time to spend with urself and ur family.

So I would say whenever u would be ill, dont push urself to be healthy as earliest as possible.Enjoy it. Love it .And be with it.

Enjoy Your illness.Enjoyyyy

Thoughtless in Emotions

Today I m in “thoughtless in emotions” state which is undescribable. A wise person sai d once when u write without a thought you are actually write from heart and in your own words not of that typical graduate literate personJ. I think(sometimes I do this in my free time) coz of monsoon and sudden surprise of rain make me feel like this. Listening music in soothing air with a cup of tea. I every sip of tea I m feeling more to write. Guess what?I am listening Mark Anthony song “ I only feel alive when I dream at night ”.Amazing song. This song reminding of my that side which very rare my friends are aware. Enjoying dance in silence. In span of 2 weeks staying away from my parents I didn’t realize that there are some people who cared about me and I even not feel like to talk with any one of them. Coz may be the reason I m enjoying my these moments and start living of my own. It is difficult to be yourself in your whole life coz u r nt standing in crowd alone you are actually standing alone besides the crowd. I am happy about one thing that my parents know that I can face the world alone in short in their language “yeh manage kar legi jaise tese karke”.Of course sometimes I feel how my parents manage to think like this . seriously. If I would be in their place from where I would get so much courage.

Staying alone with no emotions and complete thoughtless state I learnt a lot in these 15 days.How to move on in life? How to ignore the things in office which is most terrible thing to do? and most important which is till in process how to be and think fearlessly?. I still have that courage to think however I know its nt only what u think, it is important how you think..

The major change I found in me these days is acceptance. I accepted things many times but with lots of excuses but now I have rare excuse. I mean to say now I accept things with thoughtless mind and emotionless heart.I still not feel if something is not in my favour but yes if I would feel yes that thing comes to me with surprise why not experience with it.

Sometimes It is necessary to enjoy the phase of your life. May be they cant give you any experience or any lesson to learn of life but defiantly they give u a thought to remember just to keep it with you always..:)

Marriage: A Flow of Time or Decision?

Many people have their own story of marriage. And most important they never feel excited to tell anybody about that particular day. Reasons could be anything like shyness, tired of answering and most popular line "jaise sabki hoti hai waise hamari hui, nothing new”. I wonder sometimes that after getting married are we less excited about even to discuss? And just because of this people now days start taking marriage as Formal Togetherness of 2 people.

Many of my friends are younger to me and when I ask them what’s marriage to them. Only one answer I got "Relationship of love and togetherness". How many of them are mean it I don’t know. I think Marriage is the concept where you have lots of discussions from different angles but you will not get any single ending. And I don’t have any definition or thought about it. I always said "It would be starting of our one more routine which is addition to our lie and become part of life. In short 2nd Innings merge with my 1st innings which will remain". And when I ask my friends that if they have so beautiful thought so why not you get married? I got so many pre-conditioned excusable answers like “I am not financial stable", "Its big responsibility" "I am not settled in my career" blah blah blah.I have only one line to say them "These are never ending desires once you achieved it you will get need of more".

People usually ask when you turned 25 “Are you still single or recent Bachelor?” And with common expression of smile the answer is"didnt get any of my type till now". Now people look so many types in their potential partners like how the partner looks? Is he/she working? What about comm. skills? and most important question "is my partner is adjustable to my social circle?”. I think these are irrelevant questions.Thats why I m still single and happy. Jokes apart. Why people made so many of choices and restriction in their life. Are they lost trust in himself? Why people think if they have all the desirable things in life then only they will get married? Why not flow with whatsoever happening? If you feel like going to start new life. Go for it. Why you look for excuses in finance, home and career?

I never thought that way in my life that my partner should have all the necessities things of life. Life is never be like a straight road without anything in their sides and turns in between. When nothing can be permanent as we know so why to hold it? I Think life becomes more beautiful and adventurous when you start everything together in companionship. I had a wonderful story to tell you. This is a story of a great author( not remember the name) who shared his one part of life thts Marriage .This story gave me so much inspiration of how is it feel to be together. Here it goes:

(I am giving a name to this author and will use some places of my choice)

In his teenage, John was the most brat child. He was not good in anything like studies, sports, cultural activities.He also didn’t have good relation with his Family. He was drinker and smoker too. Like this his college life also passed. In his 20s he shifted to California. He did so many jobs of short duration but not succeeded in any one. He went through so many relation but never stick to any one. One day he met a girl in a pub who is cousin of his friend. They become very good friend. Life gradually starts taking place. They fight most of the times on things like money, life, time eTc etc. After 2 months they thought that we fight always on one thing that our life is not ok and we are not giving time to each other so lets get married and we live together and also will have time to think together to discuss everything. We both in need of support. He didn’t think of even that he is not well settled in his life in any term, they got married. Their friends were in obvious shocked. But they never had any answers. In his 30s he did his MBA from a Stanford University. He got a very good job They also have 3 children for whom he has to take care. In his total span of life he never thought how the things will work. Because he believed in himself and his wife and most important time. He never blames time and decisions he took in his life. He became MD of the company in his 50's. Then he decided to write a book and to share his life with the world .Now he is a renowned author.

What’s the moral of story? Lets rephrase it .what’s the concept of this story? The answer is "Simply Togetherness". I also start believing in this that Marriage is support system of everything in this world. If you are in this support system you never know what God has written for you. Sometimes Bad time also give an opportunity to get this software of support system.

These were my thoughts. I wish this will give you a thought of one more thing in your life which may not be important right now but have much more value than we can imagine.

"Be Together with someone special because he/she needs you as a support system for whole life till you last breath."

May the rest of your life be the best of you life .

Life from God's point of View

This story I read in a magazine .So I thought of sharing with you.This story change my view about life. Wish this will help you to see life in another way.

This is the story of a kid and his mother.One day a kid return home after playing with friends and put his head on his mother's lap.Her mother was doing some embroidery work on a fabric. The back of side is in front of the kid. he didnt like that messed which is back side of embroidery. He asked his mom pointing to back side of fabric" Why there is so much messed up this side Mom? Whats the beauty behind this? Do you like it?". she smiles and showed him the upper side of fabric which was showing how actual embroidery looks like.He wondered by looking at this.He said "wow,this is so beautiful.how it can be done". Mom replied "Every Beautiful thing has pianful story.Our life is also like this embroidery.When we see from our side thts messed up one we feel that our life is full of struggles,pains,hurts,etc etc, but when we see from God's side its so beautiful like garden. God's work is to make your life beautiful with all this pain and struggle and the you will see God has made special and unique garden of life which has flowers of diiferent colors."After knowing this Kid got to know that always see life from God's point of view because he has different plans for you.

Gratitude : A Prayer

Thank you God for a Wonderful Parents
who strengthen my life with love

Thank you God for a Good friends
who encourage me with trust

Thank you God for the Will Power
which help me to face the Bad Phase

Thank you God for the Patience
which help me to deal with pain

Thank you God for choosing me to send
in this world as a Human with Heart

Thank you God for being here with me
not only as friend also as Energy of Love .

Thank you for everything you give me Everyday

Love You God.

Feeling,No Explanation

Observing a full moon
in the dark night of month
is the feeling widout explanation

Taking Fresh breath of air
in the early mornings of day
is the feeling widout explanation


Making a palace of dreams
of the wet sand of ocean
is the feeling widout explanation


Watching a baby smile in the
middest of sorrow and hopeless
is the feeling widout explanation

Forgiving someone's biggest mistake
which is the most unforgettable memory
is the feeling widout explanation


If feeling widout explanation makes
you feel good and calm so why not
start FEELING GOOD......

Is This Fashion?

Yesterday I was reading HT City and I saw a pic of a male model ,who wear a cloth which which appears to be made of some waste clothes,in a fashion show.Later I got to know that the creation is made by a guy who belongs to very small town.A lots of appreciation lines were written about him in that article which in short portrays creative creation from small town boy. I found absurd to see this.I thought that this what we called it FASHION.I think Fashion in 70's and 80's are more professional and graceful and most importantly that time designers knowhow to show simplicity in their creation.We people still love to see that back time fashion...Today fashion is all about comfort and how u carry it.Right? So why designers made that kind of clothes which is only meant to show not to sell?.......Do we really call it fashion?......can u wear that kind of clothes in public........?NO. Then why we waste our time, creativity and energy which is not for mass.......and most importantly I am surprised to see out youth creativity and thinking.....specially small town boys....I always had a thought that its only small town people still have that respect for clothes and the creativity.......But I was wrong....I think somewhere a hype and over show of Media that made change in people thinking as a designer.Today fashion industry only made that kind of clothes that would be accepted by world excluding INDIA.....which from view is nt worthy even......fashion industry is full of talented designers who can show that simplicity is the only thing which reaches out to the masses not the fashion shows.....
I think if we follows what is INDIA FASHION INDUSTRY is all about rather than what
is WORLD FASHION INDUSTRY trends,then we will be the most respectable with dignity as not with our so called acceptable creations.........

The Life

When life comes to you
With bliss and love
Hug him and be friend with him
He shows you the flip side
Of every experience
He shows you many paths
And directions of change
To choose him or to loose him
He is your judgmental friend
Who slaps you and whenever
You are wrong
Appreciate you whenever
You are right
And salutes you when
You do unbelievable thing
And beyond your limitations
This is THE LIFE
Your great friend, best Criticizer
And your only enemy
He never leaves you alone
He will live with you and
Die with you

Home Of Life

Look at the home of life
Engraved by love

have windows of hope

walls stand by truth

and roof by trust

furnished with happiness

with the seal of memories

have corners of laugh and giggles

painted by Hearts of Souls

Imagination of beautiful mind

We all have this home

but there is need

of seeing it not creating it..

I learnt from my Baby....

Today I was seeing my sister's daughter pics on my PC who is just 4mnths old........and I was wondering that how small she is and how everybody dance on her fingers even when she neither speaks nor understands any of words...........Have u ever think that thse small little kids can teach u many things in life that nobody can teach u......not even ur parents.

I remember the day she came into my world.....7th of July.When my mom told me that Laxmi has come to our home.......I took it as normal thing like before.She was in Nursery after birth due to premature delivery....On 5th day when I was crying bcoz of fight with my frnd and on of my frnd was consoling me over the phone..bell rang..and when I saw my lil angel in my moms arm.....I forgot my tears and was so happy that I cant explain......I rushed to the door to take her
into my arms..but my mom refused bcoz she is too small to hold......but when I insisted she said ok but after reaching room....and guess wt?.......when I hold her in my arms......I started feeling that she is mine....even I forgot my sleep too.....That day I realised wts an UNCONDITIONAL LOVE is all about...

The days passed on...One day she was not sleeping properly .we were unable to find the reason.Even doctor was saying its ok...kids do...But we all feeling that somthing is there...we all worried about it ...Me and my sister had fought that day also and I said to her in anger mood that frm now onwards i will not come to play wid ur child.......But in night when my sweet baby was looking weak and her body was responding like sombody is taking her breath
away....for a moment I felt that I m losing smthing frm my being ....I forgot wt I said to my sis in the afternoon......My heart was beating too fast...but my mom handled the situation......frm that day I realised wts the feeling of being Mother.............

The days were going gr8 coz now she started feeling my touch....Whenever she cried.... my family called me up to take her and u will not imagin that she stopped crying...My family made a habit.......but thats was gud for me i think..........I Felt that dis small kid dont understand but only frm my touch she understands tht she(me) is ther.........my caretaker...;)....I was amazed that she will be teaching me joy,happiness that we ppl search for it....she taught me pateince........no fixed time for sleep.never sleep on bed......first give me a HUG RIDE in ur arms then i will sleep........yes she is used too till now....

Now she starts giving response wtever we say to her...I called her Chakki....dont ask me why......:)but I love to call her by this name only...whenever she laughs or even smile... I forget all my pain and worries......so tremendous miracle of God...... Hve u ever notice that these small kids cant speak.....and always think that other person will understand thier expression....this thing taught me that just widout saying u can be closer to anyone and can undersatnd better just by someone presnece...........BLIND LOVE....

And most important thing I learnt is how to grow consistently with pateince and believe in urself.....whether it would life or profession.........isnt amazing.............and I m still learning frm her.......I know that i havenot given birth to her but still she is my baby...my angle...my world..Love u my Chakki.......muhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawaa

People used to say that they want to become this and they want to become that..........I never said I want to become dis and that.....I always says GOD that I wanna become a Mother who can teach her child that the biggest thing in life is not achiving success or earn money ...but to be gud human being...which is very difficult thts wt my parents taught me........:)

Anjana sa Pyaar...

Hamse bhi kisi ne pyar kiya hota....
Dil ke har kone ko kisi ne toh bhara hota....
Rothne par kisi ne toh manay hota........
Dard dekar kisi ne mehsooos toh karya hota...
Hum maan gaye pyar ka matlab maloom nahi humein...
Par.... Kisi ne hamein dil dena toh sikhya hota......

One Liners...............wriiten by me.......

One Liners About Life.....

An Unborn Decision.........

Unpredictable Survival.........

Incredible Expectations.........

Unfulfilled Want......

Learning Attitude.......
Deserving Satisfaction........

Furnisheed by LOVE........

Connected to Soul.......

Full of Choices and Compromises........


One Liners About Love.....

Imcomparable Beauty......... Bonus to Life..........

Irrestible Desire..........

Unspoken Words................

Unexpressed Feeling...............

Need of Living..................

Reason to LIVE..........

Color of Life.................

Connected to Heart.............

Colors of Heart

A mistful gudmorning
With a greenery around
giving beautiful smile on lips of a face
Thts called Happiness to HEART..

A small child with
his sweet smile and sweet naughty voice
Saying you "Hello"
Thts called Joy to HEART...

Share of food & water
given to a needy poor
feel like peace of mind
Thts called Pleasure to HEART...

Feel the HEART...
Follow the HEART...
Trust your HEART....
See the Miracle of This HEART.....

About NOTHING

Hi!!!!!!!!!!
This is my first blog and i m thinking nthing about writing....hahahaha....isnt amazing thing that u wanna write but u dont know wt to write.............by the way dis is also a gud thing to do........."nthing"...........how many of you can do "nthing"?wts the real meaning of "nthing"?can anybody writes an article on "nthing"?lets start discussing wts "nthing" is all about?

There is very famous saying "good for nthing".........I never get to know wts this phrase actually means.Is it related to any profession?or personal topic?NO...then Is it realted to any physical body?or about its parts?NO....then Is it related to any non-existence thing ?........againnnn NO..:)......Is it related to our emotions?NO......Is it related to our presence on Earth?NO......again many questions raised about the presence of "nthing" and its relation with us........If I m writing this blog,for my concerned family and frnds.....I m doing "nthing".....but frm my side i m not doing "nthing"............wt a amazing thing or I would say dis 6 letter word "nothing" made me to write about him(i really dont know gender of nthing........i choose wt i felt;) )............

See, when I was writing about this word "nthing" ..I thought why not ask my computer/internet wts he understands by word "nthing" and I would like to share wid you my search ....click on the link and u will see the amazing thing...............

http://www.googlism.com/index.htm?ism=nothing&type=1


If u type ur name in dis.......then also he will telll u about u..............enjoy...........

And dis is wt my oxford dictinoary says:

nothing —n. 1 not anything (nothing has been done). 2 no thing (often foll. by compl.: I see nothing that I want). 3 person or thing of no importance. 4 non-existence; what does not exist. 5 no amount; nought. —adv. not at all, in no way.  be (or have) nothing to do with 1 have no connection with. 2 not be involved or associated with. for nothing 1 at no cost. 2 to no purpose. have nothing on 1 be naked. 2 have no engagements. nothing doing colloq. 1 no prospect of success or agreement. 2 I refuse. [Old English: related to *no1, *thing]

I would feel happy if u write smthing about my dis small try to write something on nthing.........:))............

More to come and ready for ur comments.............hope to listen frm u soon...............

yours_nonie :)